The last few months I’ve had many
conversations about
life and death as a pastor, a son and brother. This week an old friend
connected again through Facebook and our conversation was about death and life,
but this time emotional and spiritual death and life. Her marriage ended and,
in this crisis, she gave herself completely to Jesus, finding new life in him. That’s
why when I was reflecting on this story, the theme of life jumped out at me.
There’s much to this simple story, but this morning let’s think about life: who
it comes from and how, who we are, and what it’s all about.
Life comes from God. Everything in the
world has its beginning in God. In Genesis 1, Moses tells us that God spoke and
life appeared. But now he gives life differently; in a personal, intimate
loving way. God takes dirt, and like a potter, shapes it into a human being.
Humanity comes from creation itself, intimately tying us to creation. But after
God shapes this human out of dirt, it lies there; still just a clod of earth.
Life doesn’t come from God speaking this
time,
“the Lord God formed a man from the dust of the ground
and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living
being.” God gets close and personal in giving us life, breathing life
into us. The word for breath is the same word for spirit. God breathed his
spirit into us, helping us understand what it means to be created in the image
of God. God’s spirit gives us life. God’s image comes from his life-giving
spirit. The form of our bodies is wonderful because God creates masterpieces.
Psalm 139 reminds us “we are fearfully and wonderful
made.” Your body, whatever its shape or size is beautiful and wonderful,
a gift given by God. Our life is God given and this means you are precious to
him, a beloved child, a dear friend of Jesus. Meaning and purpose come in being
God’s beloved and being made in his image. Developing and taking care of God’s
creation is the bonus part. The life we receive from God is eternal, there’s no
death in the life we’re given, but a full life in relationship with our
creator.
Life isn’t meant to be lived alone. After Adam is
given life, God brings all the creatures of creation to Adam to see what Adam will
name them. God is getting Adam to show him what he sees in the creatures God
created. I wonder what Adam saw in each of the creatures that caused him to
create names like crocodile, giraffe, hippopotamus or even snail or worm. After
all the creatures come, not a single one is found to be a suitable helper for Adam.
He’s alone. God’s there, but it’s not the same as having someone who’s like
you, whose life reflects yours, who experiences life like you do.
Loneliness is experienced by so many
people today.
It’s a chronic problem. I’m certain that there are some of you who wrestle with
loneliness, having no one that you feel you can share with, that you are able
to experience life deeply with, who understands you, or wants to and tries to
understand you. We may be connected to others through our smart phones and
social media accounts and still many people struggle with loneliness. Natalie Shoemaker writes, “More and more adults report feeling lonely. It's not just the
elderly, but younger adults 18 to 24 that are reporting these feelings of
isolation. John Cacioppo and Stephanie Cacioppo from New Scientist write
that loneliness is becoming a modern epidemic, even when we're more connected
than ever, these thoughts of being alone together are breaking us down. Humans
are social creatures--we thrive in groups and decline when we're alone for too
long, often becoming depressed. But the Cacioppos explain that loneliness
doesn't just mean being physically alone, it can also mean feeling like you're
on the social perimeter of a group.”
This is why so many LGBTQ persons and people from
minorities struggle with loneliness and feelings of isolation. Jesus created
the church to be a place where people can find community, belonging and
acceptance. Churches often have focused on sin and separation from sin, but Jesus
challenges us to examine our own lives before judging others. We’re not going
to change anyone by judging them, but when we welcome them as persons created
in the image of God, given life through God’s breath, the Holy Spirit brings new life. Brennan Manning puts it this way, “Jesus comes for sinners, for those as outcast as tax collectors and for
those caught up in squalid choices and failed dreams. He comes for corporate
executives, street people, superstars, farmers, hookers, addicts, IRS agents,
AIDS victims, and even used-car salesmen. Jesus not only talks with these
people but dines with them—fully aware that his table fellowship with sinners
will raise the eyebrows of religious bureaucrats….” Jesus loves us as we are as he offers life and his love and acceptance. We are all sinners being offered grace and hope by Jesus.
So, what does God do about Adam’s
loneliness? He
puts Adam to sleep, takes a rib from his side and creates a woman. She’s a
suitable helper, ezer is the word used, a word
that God later uses to describe himself. Ezer’s
not about position, but about relationship that fits each other. We’re not
meant to be lonely. I wrestled with loneliness for a long time even though I have a wonderful wife and many friends. It was only after Jesus' words that he would never leave us alone sunk deep into my heart and soul that the loneliness really left. I enjoy being alone, but I no longer experience loneliness because I've allowed Jesus a place front and center in my life. There are times when being alone is good, but alone is
different from loneliness. Relationship is part of the image of God. God is
three persons in one, he’s a community that blesses and builds each person up. The
church is to be community too; building relationships with the lonely, those on
the fringes of society, the people overlooked, unloved and rejected. Jesus was
accused of living too closely with the sinners, the drunkards, the impure. This
is where we are called to live too.
God breathes into dry dead places, giving life and
fullness and hope. The prophet Ezekiel is taken by the Spirit of God to a
valley filled with dry bones. Hear what happens next, Ezekiel 37 (NLT) “Then he said to me, “Speak a prophetic message to these bones
and say, ‘Dry bones, listen to the word of the Lord! This
is what the Sovereign Lord says:
Look! I am going to put breath into you and make you live again! I
will put flesh and muscles on you and cover you with skin. I will put breath
into you, and you will come to life. Then you will know that I am the Lord.’” ... Suddenly as
I spoke, there was a rattling noise all across the valley. The bones of each
body came together and attached themselves as complete skeletons. Then
as I watched, muscles and flesh formed over the bones. Then skin formed to
cover their bodies, but they still had no breath in them. Then
he said to me, “Speak a prophetic message to the winds, son of man… ‘This is
what the Sovereign Lord says:
Come, O breath, from the four winds! Breathe into these dead bodies so they may
live again.’” So, I spoke the message as he commanded me, and
breath came into their bodies.” God breaths new life into his people, he
brings hope and transformation, he gives us himself still today.
In John 20, Jesus has risen from the grave
after
dying on the cross for our sin. He meets his followers who are together in a locked room in fear, John
20 (NLT) “Suddenly, Jesus was standing there among
them! “Peace be with you,” he said. As he spoke, he showed them
the wounds in his hands and his side. They were filled with joy when they saw
the Lord! Again, he said, “Peace be with you. As the Father has
sent me, so I am sending you.” Then he breathed on them and said, “Receive the
Holy Spirit. If you forgive anyone’s sins, they are forgiven.
If you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” Jesus breaths on
them, this is how Jesus gives them the Holy Spirit! Through the Holy Spirit
comes belonging, new life, hope, the experience of forgiveness and grace, the
gift of community and relationship in the community of the church.
If you’re searching for life, hope, and community,
Jesus invites you to come to him because he loves you, accepts you. As Jesus
followers, we’re here to walk with you so your loneliness can be a thing of the
past, so you can experience the full life Jesus offers you. For those of you who are
experiencing the blessing of life in Jesus, the call to you this morning is to
pay attention to the people Jesus places in your path, be quick to build into
those relationships, and even more quick to invite them to come to know Jesus
with you so they can experience new life as part of the community of Jesus.